Neurodivergence. Rest. Nepotism.

Three recent pitches sent into the universe.

Misconceptions about genes and gender: Fieldnotes from a “deletion”

I am a woman living with Turner syndrome. Though not usually included in discussions of neurodivergence — by definition, many people with living with genetic conditions like Turner syndrome process information and social situations differently and are therefore neurodivergent. I understand genes as a unique and individual human blueprint expressed differently in each of us. I understand gender to be more complex and fluid than X’s and Y’s. This article will explore the vigilance required to remain healthy while living with a genetic condition, the shame (and subsequent silence) that follows a diagnosis, and the narrative of “normal” within a desire to belong.

Vigilance and Rest: Everyday Life with Turner syndrome

I have been thinking about vigilance. What does it mean to keep vigil? What is the relationship between vigilance and wide-awakeness? Between vigilance and rest? I live with mosaic Turner syndrome. My condition requires vigilance. This article will explore the concept of vigilance, couple the concepts of wide-awakeness and vigilance, emphasize the relationship between vigilance and rest, and suggest how we might achieve vigilant rest.

How My Parents Got Me A Job — A Gen X Perspective on Nepotism

I am 53. I have lots of degrees and worked in world-class institutions doing some important things. My parents never got me a job. They did, however, make me the person I am, who has gotten jobs, reached goals, and found happiness along the way. I don’t bash born-on-third-base-thinking-I-hit-a-triple — or — seduced-by-a-belief-that-rugged-individual-bootstraps-are-all-it-takes thinking. 

I simply want to suggest that no one achieves anything alone. We all stand on the shoulders. We all learn about hustle, passion, and effort from someone. I am old enough to deeply understand the real value of relationships and connection in all I do. My parents taught me that. I value education, learning, and curiosity. My parents taught me that, too. They also taught me I can be whatever I want to be — not in the superficial, bumper sticker way but in the roll up your sleeves, get started, figure it out, and keep going way. This is about long-term success beyond open doors, applications completed on your behalf, or a last name. This article will explore nepotism from the perspective of a profoundly grateful Gen X woman who knows we rely on one another, build and create together, and are better when we open ourselves up and invite others in.